I am telling the story based off of limited memory due to years of supressing it and not being able to remember all the details after it happened, but even after all these years I still wonder if I did the right thing.
When I was 18 I went off to college as most teenagers due. I was at a party, so I feel I put myself in this position without realizing it. I was drugged, and I know this because I only drank three beers and blacked out. The next morning I woke up not knowing where I was. The only thing I knew was that I was in another student's apartment and I knew who he was, but I did not know why I was there or how I got there. I couldn't remember most of the night before.
The next morning I talked to my so called friend who said that he saw the kid who took me home slip something into my drink (without me mentioning that I thought I was drugged). I remember this friend trying to get me to go home, but I refused. Looking back now, I suppose I should have listened.
I despise girls who scream rape when it was consentual or when they are not sure if they were. Therefore, I did not question the alleged offender and I did not persue the matter or say I was raped eventhough I suspected us to have had sex that night. I did not see him slip anything into my drink, I can only go off of the word of someone else. All I know for sure is that I woke up in someone else's apartment after drinking an amount of alcohol that should not have caused me to black out and lose my memory.
For all I know someone else could have slipped something into my drink and I could have consented to go home with this kid. Eventhough in the eyes of the law the sex would have been considered rape if it had happened, I did not and do not want to ruin someone's life based on something I do not know to be 100 % true.
I did however get tested for STD's just in case and everything came out okay.
Did I do the right thing by keeping my mouth shut? If you do not believe I did then what should I have done in this situation?
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