I'm not ashamed to admit this. I'm kind of beyond being made to feel bad about loving someone. I know that we should be perfect mom's that are always thinking about our family's, but personally I think we as women get lost in the shuffle. I don't feel selfish thinking about me once in a while. I wanted to know what other mom's and wive's thought. First, a short synopsis of my story. My hubby and I were having problems like over two years ago. I left and met someone new. We were together the 2 years my husband and I were apart. Yadda, yadda, yadda, my ex boyfriend told me to go back to my hubby cuz he still loved me. And if you knew anything about this guy, you would understand the hard time I'm having. He's like my other half. Just like me, only a male. I kinda have strong male tendancies. But the problem is that I love my hubby, but I love this other guy too. He is like one of my very best friends. His famnily feels like my other family. I didn't plan on loving any other man except my hubby. But when I met him, all my plans went out the window. Me and my hubby are re-married now. He treats me good, but not like my ex boyfriend ever did. I REALLY miss him. I know in my heart I'm truly in love with this other guy. And I hate thinking about him like the "other" guy. He only lives 6-7 hours away. All of his friends became my friends, his family became my family. He's like that one in a lifetime person. I know you don't really understand what I am tying to say or how I feel, but if you did?
Please don't judge me.
What should I do?
Asking sincerely.... Thanks ladies.
Asked by Anonymous at 8:33 PM on Feb. 16, 2011 in Relationships
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