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2 Bumps

Would you go back to a man that devorsed you and took everything you had...

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Asked by Anonymous at 2:38 AM on Feb. 17, 2011 in Relationships

Answers (15)
  • NO!

    He hurts you once shame on HIM. Her hurts you twice shame on YOU!

    Answer by Anonymous at 2:41 AM on Feb. 17, 2011

  • no. a real man would not take from a woman under any circumstance. except if he was taking away the kids to place them in a safer environment.

    Answer by gwen20 at 2:46 AM on Feb. 17, 2011

  • No, I would tell him he had his chance and go find someone else.

    Answer by countrygirl06 at 2:55 AM on Feb. 17, 2011

  • Absolutely not. One divorce with one person is enough.

    Answer by Razelda at 3:00 AM on Feb. 17, 2011

  • No, why would you even consider it? Didn't you learn the first time?

    Answer by SweetLuci at 3:03 AM on Feb. 17, 2011

  • There is a good reason why he's your Ex and I would keep it that way.

    Answer by pswiley at 3:16 AM on Feb. 17, 2011

  • heck no!

    Answer by ddemarco at 5:02 AM on Feb. 17, 2011

  • No

    Answer by SweetLoveofMine at 5:20 AM on Feb. 17, 2011

  • My question would be, why did you get divorced in the first place? I am one of those women that believe if you cheat, you should be left with nothing, I don't care if your male or female. When I came into my marriage this house was my husbands, when and if I go out, it will remain his. I believe that people can change, I believe that sometimes when we are younger we don't stop to think about what our actions are going to do to us a few years down the road.

    If you love each other, and you want to make it work, go into the relationship with eyes wide open. Make sure you can provide for yourself, make sure your money is yours and his is his...everything is split 50/50. If you buy a house together then both names go on the load and deed. IMHO if you are going to try again, you should have a bank account with enough money in it to support yourself in case of a break up. Good Luck.

    Answer by kitchenwitch78 at 5:34 AM on Feb. 17, 2011

  • Sorry meant loan (to early for me to spell check lol)

    Answer by kitchenwitch78 at 5:35 AM on Feb. 17, 2011

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