saying nice things to you
giving you compliments
and when you did get emtional di he get mad and yell at you for it?
How did you feel?
I feel mad but embarressed too,maybe I shuldnt have expressed how I felt about him not doing all these things.I'm scared he will leave me for it.Will he feel that I'm being too needy? I've asked him but he just ignores me.He just sits there staring at the tv not saying a word while I talk and cry.Which in turn makes me talk and cry even more!
Asked by Anonymous at 8:36 AM on Feb. 17, 2011 in Relationships
A lot men don't know what to do with a crying woman. They don't understand the tears and just sit there feeling bewildered and then angry. If you have something to say to him, think it over enough that you aren't emotional about it anymore, so you can say it dry eyed. I know that's hard sometimes, but very necessary in communicating with our Spock-like men, sometimes. I would also recommend reading The Five Love Languages by Gary Chapman. It sounds like he's not understanding your love language and you aren't understanding his. It has questionnaires that will help you figure out what yours and his are. If you come to realize that he is expressing his love to you every single day, just not in your language, you will stop feeling so unloved. Granted, he has to be willing to recognize what your language is and help fulfill that, just not when you're crying and he's feeling inept. Good luck, hope this helps!
Answer by JawgaMom1 at 9:57 AM on Feb. 17, 2011
Answer by angelm523 at 8:39 AM on Feb. 17, 2011
Answer by Anonymous at 8:46 AM on Feb. 17, 2011
Answer by etexmom at 9:24 AM on Feb. 17, 2011
Answer by Anonymous at 8:55 AM on Feb. 17, 2011
Answer by treynlisa at 8:50 AM on Feb. 17, 2011
Answer by treynlisa at 8:52 AM on Feb. 17, 2011
Answer by luvmygrlz at 8:38 AM on Feb. 17, 2011
Answer by Christmaslver68 at 9:33 AM on Feb. 17, 2011
Answer by Fistandantalus at 9:45 AM on Feb. 17, 2011
Next question overall
(Hobbies & Crafts)
Does anyone know how to make a quilting frame out of PVC pipe? OR wood?