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Do you ever get frustrated with your single friends when they tell you how busy they are?

I try to put myself back in their shoes, and understand I get so frustrated with my single friends with no kids when they complain about lack of sleep, how busy they are, their overwhelming responsibilities and so on. Am I the only one who just feels like they live on another planet?

 
hotelmom123

Asked by hotelmom123 at 2:57 PM on Feb. 17, 2011 in General Parenting

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  • Depends on who it is but usually it's more a question of them not being able to manage their time. Busy, and somehow draining, to a few of them is something like sleeping or shopping or watching tv.
    wildflowers25

    Answer by wildflowers25 at 5:41 PM on Feb. 17, 2011

  • Nope because they honestly have not clue. I didn't when I was single and did not have children.

    I just laugh and ask if they can babysit for a weekend so I can have some time off. They usually decline.
    Jademom07

    Answer by Jademom07 at 3:01 PM on Feb. 17, 2011

  • No it doesnt frustrate me- just because they don't have kids or a spouse doesn't mean they dont have daily responsibilities- there just different than ours
    SueAnd2

    Answer by SueAnd2 at 3:00 PM on Feb. 17, 2011

  • No because I was far busier before kids than I am now. I kept 3 jobs and school. Sometimes people with out children really are busy.
    Alanaplus3

    Answer by Alanaplus3 at 3:02 PM on Feb. 17, 2011

  • See all of my non parent friends are kind of leaving me outta the loop so..... I wish I had that problem but my problem is that they all think that since I am a mom that I am no fun anymore!
    Meh....their loss I think DS thinks his mom is a lot of fun!!!!
    Amanda11810

    Answer by Amanda11810 at 3:19 PM on Feb. 17, 2011

  • Only one time. I worked with a single guy and he was always complaining he was tired. His shift started 3 hours later than mine. Allrighty then! LOL I tried to explain to him that we all have priorities and we all get tired.
    2tinyhineys

    Answer by 2tinyhineys at 3:31 PM on Feb. 17, 2011

  • No - just because I'm a mom doesn't mean I have a patent on being busy. I have plenty of friends without children that are incredibly busy. We all have different responsibilities.
    Scuba

    Answer by Scuba at 4:14 PM on Feb. 17, 2011

  • They just live different lives that's all. 

    louise2

    Answer by louise2 at 3:04 PM on Feb. 17, 2011

  • It depends on who was complaining. If it were someone who just goes to school or just has one job, but spends the rest of their time at the mall or the clubs, then yes I'd be a little irritated by their complaints. But if I know the person is holding down a job(s) and school, and is really THAT busy, I doubt they would even have enough time to come around to complain about it.
    rAbella

    Answer by rAbella at 3:06 PM on Feb. 17, 2011

  • No, most of my single friends get frustrated at how busy I am and I am a married woman!
    MrsJStearns

    Answer by MrsJStearns at 3:07 PM on Feb. 17, 2011