I'm scared that I'm no longer in love with my husband. Our sex life used to be phenominal. Then, the year that we concieved my daughter, we had sex a total of 3 times. During my entire pregnancy and the first 3 months after we had sex a total of four times. Last year was five I think, and that's erring on the high side. This year-nada-and it's already JULY! I've tried to tell him how hurt and rejected I feel. He says it has nothing to do with me and that he seems to have just lost his drive. I've begged him to see the doctor, or go to a sex therapsit with me, but he refuses saying he's too embarrassed.
I don't want to divorce so that is not an option. I don't know what to do. My friends say give him an ultimatum but I don't want to divorce so what is my "or else"?
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