DS's dad and I have been broken up for over 6 months. Since we've been over he's been arrested twice. The first time for getting into a fight with my brother and SIL when I tried kicking him out, and the second time for domestic violence against me (I was picking up DS from a visit with him) and violating the custody order (he tried taking DS from me). Ever since then I refuse to have any contact with him and refuse to let him see my DS alone, since I don't think it's safe for me or DS to be around him. I know we have a child but he sees him about 2-3 times a month when his parents supervise and take them to a public place (dinner, movie, park). I won't let him see my DS alone since he's already tried taking him once and has threatened to take him before, saying I'll never see my DS again.
My problem is this. Even though I let him see my DS there are still lots of times when he'll go a little stalkerish saying that we HAVE to talk. He'll start calling my house over and over again. If I take the phone off the hook he'll call my mom's cell (I moved in with my parents), she's turns it off, then he'll call my dad's cell. He starts sending emails (I've blocked his email but he uses different accounts) saying he's gonna come by my house. I'm honestly scared. I don't know what to do anymore. Is that enough for a restraining order? What else can I do to get him to leave me alone?
Asked by Anonymous at 6:28 PM on Feb. 17, 2011 in Relationships
Answer by dreamangel06 at 7:08 PM on Feb. 17, 2011
Answer by Simplicity3 at 6:30 PM on Feb. 17, 2011
Keep the emails, text msgs, voice mails and file a complaint.
Answer by virginiamama71 at 6:44 PM on Feb. 17, 2011
Answer by older at 6:46 PM on Feb. 17, 2011
Answer by chgomom at 7:00 PM on Feb. 17, 2011
Answer by Ricanmami1 at 7:03 PM on Feb. 17, 2011
Answer by Anonymous at 8:08 PM on Feb. 17, 2011
Answer by admckenzie at 9:46 PM on Feb. 17, 2011