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How can i dicipline my child?

My son will be 2 in june and he is very hyper active Im positive he has ADHD and i was wonderind about some dicipline ideas. Nothing seems to work, ive tried time out, saying no, and even a light spanking but its not helping. He has almost no attention span and hes becoming very agressive. what do i do?

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Onesontheway

Asked by Onesontheway at 10:16 PM on Feb. 17, 2011 in Toddlers (1-2)

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  • Don't jump to ADHD. My son is 3 and none stop ALL DAY! We've done time outs since he was a year old. (Not real time outs until he was 2). Real timeouts. He sits still(ish), faces the wall and can not cry or talk. Sometimes his 3 minute timeouts last 20 minutes, but sooner or later he gets the point.

    You have to let him know that there are rules in the house. And that if he breaks the rule there is a punishment.

    Stand your ground.
    SouthernMama08

    Answer by SouthernMama08 at 10:21 PM on Feb. 17, 2011

  • contact your local school district for an evaluation i found that its never to early they can help... otherwise time outs work in our house or another idea is to bring in the car seat and strap em down for 2 minutes...
    miritrose

    Answer by miritrose at 10:33 PM on Feb. 17, 2011

  • time outs work well for me, and no talking she can cry all she wants and she has to face the wall. depends on what shes getting a time out for can range from 2 mins to 20 mins and if she gets up it starts over. i feel so bad doing it but sometimes a good time out will calm them down. make sure you tell him why hes got a time out and ask if hes going to do it again if he says yes "which mine does sometimes". i tell her no your not going to do---- whatever again are you. And if shes did something to her sister i make her tell her shes sorry and give her hug and kiss.
    letlovegrow2524

    Answer by letlovegrow2524 at 7:29 AM on Feb. 18, 2011

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