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Dating my EX-HUSBAND?

do i call him my husband or bf? i kept his lastname and we only seperated for 1 yr and the divorce was finalyzed right before we reunited, but i dont want to give an explanation everytime i introduce him or speak of him,, so ex-husband boyfriend or just say husband and move on?

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Asked by Asmash at 11:35 AM on Feb. 18, 2011 in Relationships

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  • Hes your husband. You say he is your husband. No one really needs to know you had problems in the past.

    Answer by gemgem at 11:36 AM on Feb. 18, 2011

  • Boyfriend, you are starting over again!

    Answer by older at 11:36 AM on Feb. 18, 2011

  • Just say "the guy I am dating".

    Answer by tiddliwinks at 11:36 AM on Feb. 18, 2011

  • I'd say boyfriend for now

    Answer by bluerubychick at 11:36 AM on Feb. 18, 2011

  • I'd just say husband. If it doesn't work out, you can again call him ex.

    Answer by ImaginationMama at 11:36 AM on Feb. 18, 2011

  • Husband. It's no one else's business but yours, so no need to clarify.

    Answer by Wandybrine at 11:37 AM on Feb. 18, 2011

  • its hard especially at our sons school and sports games because we share a last name still!

    Comment by Asmash (original poster) at 11:40 AM on Feb. 18, 2011

  • So your on good terms with your ex-husband. That's a great thing. But you don't owe anyone an explanation about the state of your relationship with him. He's Mr. "Smith" and if the school want's to know who he is, he's "Johnny's" father.

    Answer by isabellalecour at 11:44 AM on Feb. 18, 2011

  • I would say whatever makes you happy -- either way it is the truth. And don't worry about what others think -- A little mystery is fun -- besides, it gives them something to talk about:-)

    Answer by BaileysMom476 at 11:53 AM on Feb. 18, 2011

  • I would simply call him my husband. Saves time.

    Answer by jamesonjustines at 12:05 PM on Feb. 18, 2011

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