I've been dating my bf for 11 months now and we are currently expecting our first child (my 2nd). I don't think I have EVER had an orgasm with him.
I was with my ex for 3 years, and he was an amazing lover. I knew going from my ex to someone else was going to be a big change, but after 11 months, I thought I would have had an orgasm by now. He usually finishes before I do, and usually within a few minutes. He claims it is because now that I'm pregnant, every thing in "there" is a lot tighter and he can't control it. We also aren't as emotionally connected as my ex and I were.
How can I orgasm with my bf? I don't know what to say without hurting his feelings, but I'm also getting really sick and tired of having to fake it and/or just watch him feel pleased. It's stressful and annoying! I feel like since we don't have a good sexual connection, that our relationship won't last. That is NOT being shallow, that is being honest. Sexual compatibility is a huge aspect in a relationship. HELP!!!
Asked by Anonymous at 3:11 PM on Feb. 18, 2011 in Relationships
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