I don't know about you but for me I am always inviting my girlfriends to my hot tub, to my pool, to work out, to take them out for a bite to eat, to buy them stuff to give them stuff to call them to email them.
But I don't feel that ANY of them make efforts for me it really depressed me a few months back. I felt like I was ganged up on then left out of the group especially when 4 to 6 of my friends would get together and go out and not even call me or invite me. It's like my friends don't think I'm alive now that I am a mother, pregnant, and married. My own mother always told me that I needed to over come that. Because when you get married and have kids you wont have many friends. But i think it takes effort to do it! Not everything has to be such a big deal, or cost money. Just to have a friend stop by and hang out and talk would be nice.
I know I live in the city now, as where all my friends live in asmall town in the woods. They are scared to drive into the city or just never come out this way. I wish that they would though. Because I feel like I am always spending way more money just for all my efforts. I am always over the top. It was this way when I was a counselor. And now I am a stay at home mom, I have more time.
What should I say so they will come and visit, or want to do more with me and all of our children?
Asked by Anonymous at 5:24 PM on Feb. 18, 2011 in Relationships
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