Smoking is an addiction, and quitting is HARD! And yes, it is harder for some people than it is for others. I wouldn't feel betrayed about it, it's just an indication that you are stronger than he is... Studies have shown that for most smokers, it takes several efforts to quit. Berating him for failing isn't going to help any, instead encourage him to try again. And congratulate yourself for not giving in to the urge! I know quitting is much harder to do when people around you still smoke, though.... Good luck!
at 6:13 PM on Feb. 18, 2011