I recently seperated from dh to work out some major issues in our marriage. After eleven years( obviously in the dark) i find out that my dh and my ss's bm were married. I was always told they never married by him and his family. I never really had conversations with her due to conflict she started in the begining of my relationship with my dh. How should i react cause i'm flipping pissed!Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 7:57 PM on Feb. 18, 2011 in Relationships
You have every right to be upset how did you find out? If it was through her ask to see proof divorce decree marriage license something. I am so sorry I do not know how I would react.
Answer by Alanaplus3 at 7:59 PM on Feb. 18, 2011
Answer by Mommy1234321 at 8:00 PM on Feb. 18, 2011
Well that should be a big mark against him. Lieing. Hiding it from you.
Answer by louise2 at 8:01 PM on Feb. 18, 2011
Answer by ImaginationMama at 8:01 PM on Feb. 18, 2011
Wow, that's a tough one. Lying is a major breach of trust and without trust what good is the relationship. Add to the his family who who complicit with the lies. I would have to think very carefully before I could proceed to work on it. Personally, I'm not sure I could get past it. Did he finally tell you or did you find out by accident? THAT would be a big factor.
Answer by GrnEyedGrandma at 8:01 PM on Feb. 18, 2011
I don't understand why he wouldn't just tell you that in the first place. To me it seems silly to have lied about something like that. It would make me wonder what else he's lied about.
Answer by MrsHouston47302 at 8:03 PM on Feb. 18, 2011
Answer by Alanaplus3 at 8:07 PM on Feb. 18, 2011
Answer by GrnEyedGrandma at 8:50 PM on Feb. 18, 2011
Answer by Ross2010 at 8:54 PM on Feb. 18, 2011
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