Heres a little back ground story:yesterday was the father of my oldest daughter birthday well my daughter was so sick yesterday she had a really high fever,she was coughing and vomiting all day she didn't go to school i took her to work with me and she slept all day she still is kind of sick No fever but she has a nasty cough and her voice is gone well any ways a week ago her father called me and asked me can he get her for his birthday weekend which starts today & i told him sure he said he was getting all of his kids this weekend (he has 6 & none of them have the same mom) well yesterday he called and asked to speak to my daughter and i told him she was sleep and that i will have him call her when she wakes up..and then i explained to him how sick she was and i told him if he didn't want to get her this weekend she could stay..he insisted on getting her this weekend no matter how sick she was well after i got her from school i brought her home packed her bag for the weekend and combed her i then dropped her off to him at our meet up spot (he lives 2 1/2 hours away) there were 2 of her other siblings in the car well 30 minutes ago she called me crying,saying she wants to come home i tried to explain to her this is her time to get to know her other siblings then i asked what happened and she said the whole ride up there her daddy was yelling at her for not calling him on his birthday,&he told her she is Acting just like her evil ass Mother(me)..ok so i tell her im going to call her right back i called her dad and told him that i was sending someone to get her and he says no don't come get her its my weekend and said well she isn't happy there and im not about to make her stay the whole weekend there and he said :is it what i said to her in the car, & i said yes it is and i told you she was sick so i don't know why you would be upset and he starts trying to explain but i really didn't care i told him im sending someone one to get her i hang up...i call my husbands sister (she lives in the same city as them) to go pick her up i gave her the address and she told me that she gets off of work in 15 minutes and she would go straight to pick up my daughter after..so i call my daughter to let her know that she was getting picked up & well this is how it went: me:can i speak to Kalajhah his girlfriend:well umm no because her dad called me and told me not to let her get on the phone because she is stirring up drama me:wtf put my daughter on the phone right now!! i dont give aF what that bastard said his girlfriend:well thats my man and i have to follow by his rules me:well tell Kalajhah that her auntie is on her way to pick her and to get her things ready his girlfriend:well i cant let her leave with anybody with out my husbands permission!!! next my sister in law gets to the house and guess what they wont open the door Im on the road to go pick up my daughter with my sister, my youngest daughter, and my niece, my sister is driving because im really upset right now, >:o! Vent over*
UPDATE* OK so i get there im knocking on the door and this girl friend of his wont open the door she just screaming &cursing well im already heated so i call him and tell him if his girlfriend don't give me my daughter i am going to kick this damn door in,&then after i get my daughter im going to whoop her ass!! 15 minutes went by and im still banging on the door she wont open it so at this point my sister can tell that im furious and she says let me try to handle this well my sister goes to the door and this lady opens her door with a pot of Boeing water & She throws it on my sister NO LIE! idk if she thought my sister was me but she threw boiling water all over her may i add that it is Raining!! ok so back to the story the police arrives 5 minutes later and at this time my sister is ready to go after this lady!!! the police puts my sister and me in the back of the car because apparently were Trespassing i explain to the officer everything that happened and he goes in and get my daughter he walked her outside to me and he let me and my sister out of the car and then he tells me that we should take this custody situation to court and that he could take my sister to jail for threatening to whoop the lady ass because we are on her property but he wont!!! now im back home in my bed freezing:(! &trying to figure out how im going to find a baby sitter this weekend!!!! update over*Answer Question
OMG! I wouldn't allow him to have my daughter any more. She pulled that shit in front of your child and obviously acts like one herself! WOW!
Answer by MrsHouston47302 at 10:57 PM on Feb. 18, 2011
Answer by khf22 at 10:57 PM on Feb. 18, 2011
Answer by momavanessa at 11:02 PM on Feb. 18, 2011
Answer by jeanclaudia at 11:03 PM on Feb. 18, 2011
Answer by cdecker83 at 11:05 PM on Feb. 18, 2011
Dang! That is really crazy. Why didn't they take the gf to jail for throwing boiling water on your sister? That's not right. Not to mention he was trash talking you in front of your daughter. Who does that?? I hope your daughter and your sister are both okay.
Answer by Christieluv0614 at 11:06 PM on Feb. 18, 2011
Answer by parajumper3 at 11:09 PM on Feb. 18, 2011
Answer by amy197 at 11:09 PM on Feb. 18, 2011
Next question overall
Do you tell another mom when her kid is being too agressive with your kid?