My boyfriend recently got a new job and when he works he turns into a different person and starts being really mean to me. He works from 9 am to 7 pm then its about an hour drive home. I don't have a car so I sit at home alone all day lonely and bored looking forward to him getting here. I'm going through a lot of depressing stressful stuff and I don't have any friends or family to come pick me up and spend time with me while he is working. I understand he is tired when he gets home but he ususally wants to drag me to his friends house or go somewhere when he gets home. I just got money for a car and found what sounded like a nice one and they guy said I could come look at this evening. So when my bf got off I asked if he would take me and he said ok. We live about 15 min from town and when we got into town the ATM wouldn't let me draw out the money I needed. So he called the guy and the guy said if I gave him a couple hundred he would hold the car. I said I didn't feel comfortable doing that and my BF got really mad! He said I made him come into town for no reason but I didn't even know I wasn't going to be able to get the money. I also wanted to go out to eat but then since my BF was being so mean I didn't really want to pay to feed him so I asked him to just take me home then he says things like "walk home". He said he didn't want to go back home so he just sat in the ingles parking lot for like 30 min. After I realized I either had to take him to eat or sit in the ingles parking lot for the rest of the night I told him we would go eat. But all the places I wanted to eat were closed and everything was pretty much closed so there really wasn't anything to do. I finally decided on place and when I went inside he said he didnt know why he came in because he wasnt letting me pay for him to eat. I wasnt going to just sit there and eat when I wanted to go home in the first place. So I went back out to the car and when he got in he told me when we got home he wanted me to leave. He knows I don't have anywhere to go. Then he drove recklessly in the rain up our curvy road yelling at me saying it was my fault that he was in a bad mood. I'm pregnant so I asked him to please stop driving like that and he told me he didn't care about me and I didn't care about my baby because I wouldn't eat and I stay stressed. If he knows I'm stressed why would he contribute!?!?!? When we get home he tells me to stop crying and watches tv laughing acting like he doesnt feel bad at all. I'm just really frustrated. I really don't know what I did wrong. And it hurts that he tells me he loves me and everything but as soon as he gets mad he is quick to tell me to leave. Do you ever feel like you haven't done anything wrong and try to avoid arguing but no matter what some one keeps putting you down?
Asked by Anonymous at 11:32 PM on Feb. 18, 2011 in Relationships
It doesn't sound to me like YOU are the problem. Dump that loser gf. Life is too short to waste it with someone like him.
Answer by MrsHouston47302 at 11:37 PM on Feb. 18, 2011
Answer by parajumper3 at 11:38 PM on Feb. 18, 2011
Answer by Simplicity3 at 11:44 PM on Feb. 18, 2011
Answer by diamondsarecool at 11:50 PM on Feb. 18, 2011
You don't have any friends that you could stay with? Where is your family babe?
Answer by MrsHouston47302 at 11:41 PM on Feb. 18, 2011
Holy shit gf. He has some serious control issues. Walk and find a phone and get the hell away from him. I can't even believe someone would be so cruel.
Answer by MrsHouston47302 at 11:49 PM on Feb. 18, 2011
Answer by JeannieBee at 11:51 PM on Feb. 18, 2011
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