When I had my first son, I was in Love. When I had my second son, I was just there. Yes I love them, and I miss them when I dont see them, and I would give my life for my kids, but... I dont have a problem being away from them for a week, or not calling them, I act as though they dont exist when i dont have them.
I didnt really plan getting pregnant, my husband basically forced me to have kids, or else he'd leave. Thats why I had them, if not, I would have waited until I was around 28 or so.
I dont feel I have that bond with them. I dont like to sit and teach them anything, I have no desire to. i think thats why they have schools. I DO sit and read to them, and sometimes color with them, but rarely. I just let them do their own thing all day long.
Call me a bad parent, I know I am... I just beed to learn ways to fix it.
Asked by Anonymous at 9:43 AM on Feb. 19, 2011 in General Parenting
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