My husband makes great money, I dont work. I choose not to. When we first married, he said it would be fine that I dont, but now I see that he doesnt even give me money to go get the "wants" in our lives. Like my kids need/want a haircut, but nope, not without complaints from him. He wont help pay for their school, I havent asked, but he hasnt offered. My kids need shoes, but he shopes at baby Gap for his kids, but for mine, he wants me to go to payless (no biggie, but i see favoritism already) I say I want a pedi, ehh he blows me off. I say I need medical insurance, he refuses to pay for it bc he see's money coming out of his pocket, for clothes, shoes, haircuts, and etc. I have applied to several jobs, with no luck. I dont want to work, but im going to have to if i want things for myself and kids.
I feel as though I shouldnt have to feel guilty using my husbands money, I should feel as though its mine as well. Like we're a team. I clean, cook, and have everything spotless by the time he is home. never reject him in the bedroom, so I know Im trying to be a good wife. (and want to be)
We just filed taxes, and well i have a situation that scared us into thinking his wages would be garnished, and he flipped. he said that I am a girl with alot of baggage. That he took me and my children in, with a dead beat father to them (doesnt pay cs), and I dont work, dont have an education (ex husband never let me go to school) dont know anything about myself, (my own fault) and that Im just a girl with tons of tire tracks.
He said if he would have known the deal about the judgement I have he wouldnt have put me on his taxes. But i DID tell him! he said that all these things are popping up, and doesnt know where its going to end. He gets mad and yells at me, and curses at me..
We have only been married 4 months! Its like, if he can barely deal with these issues, I couldnt imagine if we had bigger ones! Its like he regrets getting with me! It hurts....
If he had a choice of money and us, he would for sure choose money...
I dont know what more could happen, or how much more i can take....
Asked by Anonymous at 3:33 PM on Feb. 19, 2011 in Relationships
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