So, after six months post divorce of still living with and putting up with my ex-husband...I think my hell is finally coming to an end...I hope....but I'm really frustrated!!! He finally left last night, as we can not get along under the same roof- and lets face it- we never really did....the marriage was absolute hell. I knew he was pissed when he left the house and I know how violent he is...so I didn't sleep. He showed back up at my doorstep this morning...said he needed to grab a few of his things that were still in the house...no problem. I let him in. He spent the next hour telling me I owe him money (I'm holding up my end of the court order...I pay him his monthly settlement payment) I finally got really frustrated with him telling me he won't leave until I give him more money...so I told him to go get a job and make his own money. Then he called me a worthless fucking cunt, worthless whore, worthless fucking bitch, nothing but a fucking whore, and everything else in the book that could possibly be degrading. He was yelling so loud my little 3 year old kiddo was screaming-terrified. This went on for three hours. Other than telling him to get a job...the only thing I did was asked him to quit yelling, be respectful while in my house and quietly get the things he needs. And if he can not do that, then he needs to leave, send somone else to get his stuff or come back when he's calm. His rage only got worse, so when he walked out of the house with a couple of things, I locked the door and told him to leave. (Halfway through this, I grabbed my voice recorder and recorded what he was doing). So, he pounded my door, left several dents in it, so its pretty much ruined. Grabbed a sledge hammer to break the window in the door, so at that point I let him back in, cause I didn't want him to take the hammer to the door. Of course, his yelling carried on. Then he started throwing cast iron skillets. Thats when i saaid enough is enough, called the sheriff (I don't think he behavior was appropriate in front of my kiddo and I didn't want anyone getting hurt). He was very polite to the sheriff- told him I was just having problems becasue he was leaving, and I have mental issues, he didn;t do anything wrong and he was ust gonna hang around til a friend go there to help him move. I told the sheriff I recorded what he was saying, but the sheriff told me to call someone to be here with me until the ex left. I did. All I really wanted was the ex gone, but sheriff asked if i was ok, and since i wasn't about to leave my house and let my angry ex do whatever he wanted and take whatever he wanted of mine.. i said I'd be fine...sheriff left. Ex's friend never showed up. Ex took a bunch of my stuff (wierd things like my toilet paper and cigarettes and a case of beer and garbage bags...and some other valuables.) But whatever...it can all be replaced. Just made me a bit angry. And when everyone was gone, he grabbed me and tried taking my clothes off. I fought that, said not a chance, and he says, why not, you're a nothing but a fuckin whore so I'm gonna get some too. Grrrrrrrrrrrr!!!!!!! Afraid I was still recording it, he wisely let me go and left the house. Friend still hasn't shown up to get his crap out of here, I have no idea where he's at, but he made it a point to tell me that if I decide to allow another man in my house, he'll take my kiddo, because my kid doesn't "need to see his mother being a whore".
so, after all that, I'm scared, still can't sleep, have no idea when he's gonna come back to carry out his promises of making sure I'm gone for good, and I know if I call the sheriff, they won't do anything about it.
I don't know what to do... :-(
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