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My mil and dh had a falling out about a year ago/ i thought they made peace

on xmas . but everytime my dh calls his mom she sends the call straight to voice mail. i asked my dh if he was sure that she did that . and he said she did it like 4 PLUS times. she is christian. AND WE R too! and we all made peace but we knw christ wanted us to. is that a sign she really didnt forgive him

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Asked by Anonymous at 1:06 PM on Feb. 20, 2011 in Relationships

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  • always support you husband (obviously) but stay out of his relationship with his mom. i would let them deal with it like adults should. when he comes to you and vents, make him feel better. when the mil complains to you about it, be neutral and say "its all you, i have nothing to do with it" if she's not ready to forgive him, so be it, that is what makes her heart heavy, not yours. if you WERE a part of it, then forgive and be a good example about forgiving

    Answer by Liz4Life at 3:12 PM on Feb. 20, 2011

  • Well if your MIL is being very unchristian then tell your husband forget it. Your husband tried and she's being a b**ch about it. obviously she has forgotten or forgiven whatever happened between your husband and her. tell your husband let her make that call to him now. don't give in

    Answer by lucky35 at 3:48 PM on Feb. 21, 2011

  • no it dont sound like she has forgiven him

    Answer by SundayRose2011 at 5:53 PM on Feb. 27, 2011

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