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Am I the only one who is indecisive?

I like to weigh my options and think of the consequences before I make decisions. Maybe I just have preferences. But it takes me a while to realize what they are.
I was not like this before I became a mother.


Asked by idaspida at 3:44 PM on Feb. 20, 2011 in Just for Fun

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Answers (10)
  • I always go back inforth with plans sometimes they get changed @ the last minute but it still all works out

    Answer by princesschilly at 4:03 PM on Feb. 20, 2011

  • I've always been terrible with decisions... especially the little ones! My roommate will say it's my turn to pick a movie, and it takes me FOREVER! We've got over 700 to choose from, and I've only seen maybe a quarter of those... now that's a hard decision!

    Answer by AdensMama0308 at 3:47 PM on Feb. 20, 2011

  • OMG YES...thank-God I'm NOT the only one.
    I was just thinking about this exact thing the other day too!
    How differently my life has become after I became a mom....someone that NEEDS me, someone I have to constantly
    worry about MY Consequences for.
    I used to just get in my car and drive aimlessly ANYWHERE I pleased...never giving a thought to if I had enough money if something broke-down or if I got stuck or lost.
    Now, All that imagined freedom has changed.
    Sometimes I wish I could go back to that state of mind.

    Answer by Missikat75 at 3:59 PM on Feb. 20, 2011

  • yes & no... idk... lol

    i'm that way too. hubby thinks it's one of my more annoying qualities.

    Answer by rAbella at 3:48 PM on Feb. 20, 2011

  • i was just wondering the same thing. How are people so sure of themself? I never know what i want or what i want to do. I guess i want it all.

    Answer by proudmom611 at 3:50 PM on Feb. 20, 2011

  • I listen to my gut each and every time.

    Answer by older at 3:53 PM on Feb. 20, 2011

  • The biggest change in my life which I can not help is what my DD hears me listening too. The lyrics just stand out for me now.

    Comment by idaspida (original poster) at 4:05 PM on Feb. 20, 2011

  • My plans changed from a htoel room and rental car to staying at my mom's for the two days I am visiting for the family reunion. And I must have been driving my DH crazy all the while.

    Comment by idaspida (original poster) at 4:07 PM on Feb. 20, 2011

  • my dh is more than me lol

    Answer by san78 at 4:33 PM on Feb. 20, 2011

  • I have a hard time making decisions, because I don't want to just quickly make one without weighing all the options.

    Answer by SweetLuci at 9:48 PM on Feb. 20, 2011