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How would you in a nice way tell your Husband that he needs to shower. It seems like the only time my husband takes a shower is after we have sex which is usually once a week...yuk
I have tried henting but either he don't think he needs one or he ignores me...or if i want him to shower i say honey if you want "head" you better clean up and boy he jumps in the shower...What to do.

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Asked by dusty1962 at 3:58 PM on Feb. 20, 2011 in Relationships

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  • Shower with him. Ha ha believe it or not, that was pretty much the only way to get my high school boyfriend to shower. Yeah... gross.

    Answer by AdensMama0308 at 4:01 PM on Feb. 20, 2011

  • ditto pp, shower with him! dh loves it when we take showers together!

    Answer by liteofmine71 at 4:02 PM on Feb. 20, 2011

  • I agree invite him to shower with you.


    Answer by virginiamama71 at 4:02 PM on Feb. 20, 2011

  • I was going to say the same thing, to shower with him, and make it a daily thing.

    Answer by older at 4:02 PM on Feb. 20, 2011

  • Thanks I will try that maybe even reward

    Comment by dusty1962 (original poster) at 4:03 PM on Feb. 20, 2011

  • Yep, thats probably the best thing to do, mine's the same way. Why can't they get one without being told.

    Answer by pswiley at 4:08 PM on Feb. 20, 2011

  • Give him more head :-) I agree with the other girls shower with him :-)

    Answer by hotrodlassie at 4:10 PM on Feb. 20, 2011

  • I would tell him "No shower, no nookie!"

    Answer by Bethsunshine at 4:15 PM on Feb. 20, 2011

  • I would shower with him. you can take turns washing each other. Than you wont have to worry about how to get him to take one that is so icky not taking one

    Answer by princesschilly at 4:19 PM on Feb. 20, 2011

  • I think the reason he doesn't take showers often is because when he was married for 23 years he said his EX on took one maybe once a week or 2 weeks so its normal to him.
    So when we dated and he spent the night he showed but didn't know what he did when he was at his own place.....

    Comment by dusty1962 (original poster) at 4:29 PM on Feb. 20, 2011

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