My husbands oldest brother is getting married. Today was the bridal shower for his future wife, however, My mother in law and I were not invited. I live in another state, so she may have thought I would not be able to attend anyway, but had I known about the shower I may have been able to make arrangements to be there. My feelings are not hurt I'm just a little perturbed. My mother in law on the other hand is devastated and I think understandably so. My brother in law has had some issues with his mom since she divorced his dad about three years ago... but this is a little over the top! Not to mention that my father in law's girlfriend and their third brother's girlfriend were invited. Am I right to be angry with my brother in law and his future wife? What should I do about these feelings?
Answer by rosiemendo at 8:52 AM on Feb. 21, 2011
I would be perturbed too. A marriage is a great opportunity for new beginnings, sounds like your BIL is dredging up the past.
Answer by pnwmom at 1:30 AM on Feb. 21, 2011
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