How far are you willing to go with your significant other if you see signs of preditory behavior? Your ex and you called it quits and you have the kids. Both are teen girls btw. Your new SO has been actting funny around your children or may I say inappropriately. For example him coming out of the shower without his towel and saying he thought everyone had left the house. Walked into one of the girls room without knocking. Your daughters are so uncomfortable they sleep in the same room after the incident.
The signs of a pedifile exsist but you keep brushing it off because you do not want to be alone. What should you do if you see this happening? I spoke to the girls and told them to take showers together. Do not leave each other alone for no reason. sleep in the same room and put a chair in the back of the door at night. I spoke to their mom, well more like told her off. I threaten to call the authority on her and this guy. Currently they stay with me b/c we made her see things our way. I want to hurt him so bad because he did something to the youngest one that causes me to cry at night.
What would you do?
Well under NORMAL circumstances, I wouldn't consider that to be a warning of any kind. My husband took baths with our daughter when she was a baby, does that make him a pedophile. Uh no. I wouldn't be so quick to jump to conclusions because I know my spouse. This man has already COMMITTED molestion (from what I understand) and there is no reason on this freaking planet that he should be allowed around ANY of them period.
Answer by MrsHouston47302 at 2:35 AM on Feb. 21, 2011
Answer by dragonqueen at 2:35 AM on Feb. 21, 2011
Answer by m-avi at 2:35 AM on Feb. 21, 2011
And I would call the police on his ass! Letting him be free only gives him the opportunity to do that crap to someone else.
Answer by MrsHouston47302 at 2:37 AM on Feb. 21, 2011
You are a good woman and I commend for taking them in. That is just too freaking sad for words!
Answer by MrsHouston47302 at 2:49 AM on Feb. 21, 2011
Is the mom just not concerned?
Answer by MrsHouston47302 at 2:50 AM on Feb. 21, 2011
Answer by rkoloms at 6:02 AM on Feb. 21, 2011
That man would be out of my house in a heartbeat!
Answer by beeky at 8:03 AM on Feb. 21, 2011
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