That would be like a parent not letting the other see a child if they dont pay it....
I am talking about my ex husband - we got divorced when I was pregnant with our son . At first he would see his son every couple of weeks , but then after he started dating his "baby mama" ( she is now pregnant with his 4th child - they have a 3 year old son, 2 year old son, and she is 7 months pregnant again) ..... he only seen my son every 4 or 5 months .... until he just stopped
of course through this time I had to go through the courts and have child support taken out of his paycheck...
Today I recieved a letter from his "baby momma" telling me how unfair I am being, because I have money taken away from THEIR KIDS.... and since he doesnt see my son , he shouldnt have to pay for my child.....
I never stopped him from seeing my son , I would have loved for my son to have his father in his life..... we live in the same town, there isnt even 10 mintues between our homes... but yet he hasnt seen my son in over 4 years ( my son is 6 ) ...
Even though I do have a good job, I own my own home, and can give my son whatever he wants... I dont think its fair to not make him pay something .... I dont think I should feel bad that he has a crappy job and is having a 3rd child with someone who wont work , I dont think I should have to feel bad that they have to live in PA housing and are food stamps....They KNOW they cant afford things and yet they are the ones who keep having kids who they cant afford .. why should MY son have to pay for their stupid actions ....
Asked by Anonymous at 1:11 PM on Feb. 21, 2011 in Parenting Debate
Answer by specialwingz at 1:15 PM on Feb. 21, 2011
No answer, just sympathy to you. HUGS!
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