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Spin off question: Do you feel bad or guilty about becoming sexually active when you did?

Do you wish you would have waited? Did you have any consequences or repercussions of becoming sexually active when you did?


Asked by Bubbie0809 at 3:58 PM on Feb. 21, 2011 in Relationships

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  • no, i didnt start having sex until i was 17. i dated that guy for 10 months, so i dont have any regrets because back then, it was exactly what i wanted.

    Answer by tnm786 at 4:01 PM on Feb. 21, 2011

  • I am still married to that man!!And if i regret anything it would only be that i know so much more now than then.if that makes sense.36 years to that same man and it is better than ever now.No regrets.No guilt.I was 15!

    Answer by grismelda at 4:01 PM on Feb. 21, 2011

  • meant it WASNT romantic or sweet or anything

    Answer by sissy4444 at 4:03 PM on Feb. 21, 2011

  • Do I feel bad? Sometimes, but then I remind myself that the choice was taken from me and it wasn't my fault. I was raped at 14 (almost 15).

    Answer by layh41407 at 4:06 PM on Feb. 21, 2011

  • um, yes & no when I think about i now and now that I have a daughter I would say yes I was too young but what can ya do now whats done is done & I hope my DD will wait until she is at an appropriate age & with someone she loves & who loves her.

    Answer by sarasmommy777 at 4:08 PM on Feb. 21, 2011

  • I don't feel bad and don't think having sex for the first time had a very big impact on my life at all.

    Answer by UpSheRises at 4:09 PM on Feb. 21, 2011

  • nope, no regrets there :)

    Answer by Neelah at 4:09 PM on Feb. 21, 2011

  • In my country people marry at 15. Totally the norm... but, me too. :)

    Answer by khf22 at 4:09 PM on Feb. 21, 2011

  • No, no and no!

    Answer by older at 4:10 PM on Feb. 21, 2011

  • NO regrets. I was 14 and it was my idea. I met DH when I was 16.

    Answer by ashisamom at 4:25 PM on Feb. 21, 2011

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