Since I have had my daughter (16 months ago) I have NO sex drive whatsoever. Ive never felt less desirable, nor less desire, in my entire life. Even when I was pregnant things were touchy. I find myself dreading sex usually because I am tired and find my self "just going through the motions" for my husband. I know it makes it suck for him but I just can't seem to get through it. He is currently deployed so right now this is great but when he gets back I know it is all he is going to want to do. Has this happened to any other women after childbirth for such a lengthy period of time. Before the pregnancy and baby I had an extremely healthy appetite and often times would be the instigator. I find it weird that I have done a complete 180 still after 16 months. Is there anything I can do to "combat" this and bring myself back to the way I used to be?Answer Question
Answer by SweetLoveofMine at 4:11 AM on Feb. 22, 2011
Answer by DeansMother at 5:50 AM on Feb. 22, 2011
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