I feel stupid even just asking this, but my hormones are running my emotions around & i'm sure one day, then not the next. My boyfriend is staying with me & my son (3 yrs). Things went well till he gave up his job to start at new company, the company was liquodated before he could start! 5 months later still no job & feels like he is not trying. I see him looking for work via net & he goes to interviews but has not had any luck yet. I found out I am pregnant 2 weeks ago & since then it's like he thinks that he can now rest on his laurels! I get home from work yesterday & he is still sleeping!!! I at least expect that he will cook dinner or tidy up a bit or something!!!??? I have now resorted to giving him an ultimatum - a paycheck or proof of a permanent job (contract, etc.) by end of Feb which is now only 6 days away (I gave him 'notice' in beginning of month) or he moves out & will only have contact with me or his unborn child once he can contribute financially. Too harsch or should i stick to my guns?? I don't want to be caught in a weak moment. Men are so good at preying on those emotions. Any alternative's??
Answer by Liz132 at 7:57 AM on Feb. 22, 2011
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