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Baby is lost......

My daughter is miscarrying as I type this and my heart hurts like if it was happening to me, there is no question here, just a need to vent this anguish I feel and being totally incapacitated to do anything. She looked at me and said with tears in her eyes, Why is everything so difficult for me mom? I hugged her and told her that although it hurts like hell, everything does happen for a reason, but at least now she knows she is capable of conceiving and that I will pay for the next round of try. Oh how it hurts.........


How easy it was when all it took a kiss and a band aid!


Asked by older at 5:14 PM on Feb. 22, 2011 in Parenting Debate

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Answers (31)
  • Oh this brings tears to my eyes.........Im hugging you tightly from one mom to another. I cannot imagine how painful this is for both you and your daughter.......know your both in my thoughts.

    Answer by mistynights234 at 5:21 PM on Feb. 22, 2011

  • I'm so sorry. That was really the hardest thing that ever happened to me. I did go on and have 2 kids since then.

    Answer by mompam at 5:17 PM on Feb. 22, 2011

  • So Sorry for your loss.

    Answer by cnm5381no2 at 5:15 PM on Feb. 22, 2011

  • I'm so sorry you and your family have to go through this. Just comfort her the best way you can. Just know that nothing you say can make it better or worse, she knows you intentions are in the right place. God bless you and praying for a healthy pregnancy next time for your dd.

    Answer by BabyBugsmama at 5:18 PM on Feb. 22, 2011

  • hugs


    Answer by tnm786 at 5:16 PM on Feb. 22, 2011

  • : (
    Sometimes it is nature's way...

    Answer by Anonymous at 5:17 PM on Feb. 22, 2011

  • Shit. This makes me so sad. I'm sorry, Older.

    Answer by JulieJacobKyle at 5:24 PM on Feb. 22, 2011

  • I'm sorry!!! I really don't have any other words to say!!

    Answer by Bethsunshine at 5:59 PM on Feb. 22, 2011

  • So sorry for all of you.

    Answer by itsmesteph11 at 6:48 PM on Feb. 22, 2011

  • I am so sorry. I do not know of any reason that would make this horror ok. Please allow her to mourn this baby.

    Answer by tootoobusy at 7:11 PM on Feb. 22, 2011

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