I went to clean my sons house today... I went to clean it because he asked for help because his pregnant new wife wont do anything ( my son has 3 jobs and also volunteers as an EMT )... When I first walked in the door I was horrified because i couldnt even open the door all the way because of the piles of clothes and bags everywhere .... They have lived there for almost a year and her boxes still arent unpacked because she says she doesnt feel like it because she is pregnant - BUT she has lived there for almost a year and she is only 10 weeks pregnant)
Ok so her not cleaning and not cooking isnt a reason to not like her... but I wanted to describe WHY I had to clean their house.
When she found out she was pregnant they hurried and got married ( town hall ) , my son is so excited and being a dad is all he talks about.
But today as i cleaned I noticed 2 things and now I am worried sick that she is playing yet another mind game with our family ( she has lied several times before) .... When I emptied the bathroom trashcan there was several dirty pads ( yes I know thats disgusting ) ... she also has a box of pads beside the toilet, and in the cabinet ( behind her makeup bag and stuff was 2 boxes of pregnancy tests) ....
So this really makes me wonder... I mean she is a slob and the pads could be there from whenever - but since the trash wasnt overflowing I doubt it was THAT long ago ( longer than 10 weeks ago) ...and since she had all of the stuff thrown overtop of the pregnancy tests, i cant tell if maybe she was trying to hide it or just thrown it int here out of laziness ( I assumed laziness at first which is why I was organizing it) ....
What would you think ? What would you say ?
Asked by Anonymous at 9:31 PM on Feb. 22, 2011 in Parenting Debate
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