My husband and i go for 2 weeks not having sex, and we want it at separate times. I would rather have sex in bed when kids are in bed and i can relax and enjoy it. He would rather have it when they are awake, and he puts cartoons on for my oldest and brings the 5month old in our room or in another room and i am not in the mood then.
Then he said to me he is sick of leading me on, and wants a change of me leading him on. I told him when i want it u don't and when u want it i am not in the mood, so now he thinks i am not attracted to him. It seems like since we had kids our sex drive went way down. he wants it and i am just to exhausted to do it
Babes edit your question and put a warning sign on it. You have to make time. Maybe once you guys get started you WILL want to. I've often found the hardest part is actually just making it to the bedroom and undressing. Once we start, I am SO happy that we did.
Answer by MrsHouston47302 at 9:54 PM on Feb. 22, 2011
Answer by Anonymous at 9:59 PM on Feb. 22, 2011
I can understand not wanting to have sex when your children are up running around. I don't like leaving my kids unattended either. Tv unfortunately is not a babysitter. Sit down and talk and tell him everything you are saying right now. Communication is key.
Answer by matheson7 at 10:00 PM on Feb. 22, 2011
And yes, I agree with you OP. We don't have sex when our children are awake period. Sometimes they will wake up during and that sucks but shit happens. And him to bring the baby in the room to me is gross and an ABSOLUTE mood breaker.
Answer by MrsHouston47302 at 10:01 PM on Feb. 22, 2011
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