I received an incident report from my 3yr old daughters preschool that her and another child were caught naked from the waist down and "grinding" each other. I guess my daughter was caught earlier in the day (twice) laying/sitting on the same child and they were told both times to find something else to do. The preschool supervisor told me she talked to both children separately and explained that some body parts were to be kept private, etc. I am extremely stressed about this! I am a single parent so my daughter has never been exposed to these sort of adult activities. I don't understand where she would even get the idea to do this in her head. Its unclear which child was instigating and of course the preschool won't even tell me who the other child was. I don't know what to think here! I am over reacting? I talked to my daughter about it and will continue to, but are there other steps I should be taking as well? Please HELP?!
Answer by JazzlikeMraz at 10:53 PM on Feb. 22, 2011
Okay, I have a 5 year old and a 3 year old, the idea came from SOMEWHERE. Do you have animals that might have been humping each other? Is your child anywhere where she could witness that? Who instigated, whose idea it was, all of that is prominent info that you NEED. I say speak to them very firmly and tell them that you have a right to know PERIOD. Don't take no for an answer. Also, where were the people who were suppose to be watching them?!
Answer by MrsHouston47302 at 10:18 PM on Feb. 22, 2011
Answer by devinalexis at 10:19 PM on Feb. 22, 2011
Kids pick up a lot of things, they are sometimes more aware than we give them credit for. 3 years old is a little young to be naked and grinding on each other, no you are not overreacting. I would definitely continue to talk to her and keep an eye on this.
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