DH and I haven't had sex in 8 months. Previously, sex wasn't very often. I chalked it up to his reduced sex drive from chemo and radiation 7 years ago. But now, we're not having sex at all. The last time was in June. I was pregnant and sex started to hurt. So I avoided it. As soon as we were given the green light, I started asking for it. He would say yes and then fall asleep on the couch. This has been going on for 2 months. I feel like I'm not good enough. ANd now, I feel like I would be uncomfortable having sex with him because I feel like there must be something wrong with me. I really need to fix this problem, but asking is just humiliating, especially when there's no response. Please help because I feel like this could end up ruining my marriage. I'm a loving and devoted wife. I love DH so much and this hurts me more than I could ever explain.Answer Question
Asked by Anonymous at 7:44 AM on Feb. 23, 2011 in Relationships
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Answer by princesschilly at 8:24 AM on Feb. 23, 2011
I just saw on an program to help couples that one thing you can try with him is to lay on the bed naked and touch all areas of his body except the private areas both front and back. Have only a couple of candles on in the room. Then he does the same to you. The goal is to foster togetherness, not sex. It was the first exercise for a couple to do as they tried to get their desire for each other back.
Answer by Anonymous at 8:26 AM on Feb. 23, 2011
Look at this link and maybe browse Dr. Berman's books in a good book store
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