I had been talking to a man online and we had become really good friends. We both were very honest about our lives and what we had going on and we knew that this was something we would have to take slow. It was progressing along well and then he just flaked on me. He got all pissy at me for sending him a message asking him what was going on because I had not heard from him for a few days and we were usually chatting every day, so it was out of the oridinary for us not to talk.
Well that night he send me a message snapping at me do to work, family issues, and basically said he does not need this right now and that he will not take on anything else and then told me to have a nice night. I have not heard from him since. I did reply to him and got nothing back, and I even thought about it for a few days and just told him that I would not bother him anymore and obviously he had enough going on in his life and I was not going to add to it. I pretty much said goodbye. But it still does not sit well with me and I think there is more but don't think I will ever really know because he was one of those people that I actually really felt that "connection" with, more so than I have ever felt with anyone and there were times that I know he felt the same way. He told me he told me things he had never told anyone, not even his Ex-wife (when she was still his wife) and I felt things for him that I never felt with my ex-husband. But he just flaked on me and it makes me wonder what the hell really happened? But I can't push the issue any more with him because I have gotten no where. Maybe he wanted me to get lost and I just did not take the hint?
Asked by Anonymous at 11:19 AM on Feb. 23, 2011 in Relationships
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