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why do i feel so dirty, gross and sad after telling a man and him rejecting me?

1st question was in relationships, am i undatable

thanks ladies for advice and shoulders
feeling pretty down
and feeling unfemale again


Asked by Anonymous at 11:25 AM on Feb. 23, 2011 in Relationships

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Answers (7)
  • Think of dating like being a door to door vaccuum sales person--its humiliating work, especially if you aren't real comfortable with your product. If you keep knocking on doors sooner or later someone will bite. If you sit on the couch and feel sorry for yourself you won't get anywhere.

    If you know it will take 100 bad dates but on date 101 would you give up and say its not worth it or just suck it up?

    You need to feel good about yourself first and foremost! You are clearly a beautiful, sensitive, caring person. I bet in five more minutes I could come up with another laundry list for you. Instead of focusing on why some moron rejected you, think about what you have to offer!

    I met my husband while waiting for bad date 34...

    Answer by hotelmom123 at 12:14 PM on Feb. 23, 2011

  • fingers crossedLoss of hope I know you will find the right guy. he's out there waiting for you.


    Answer by butterflyblue19 at 11:30 AM on Feb. 23, 2011

  • Of course you are not undateable. That guy probably had some other issue, but used your ex as the excuse. If he was really interested and wanting you he would not have backed down for anything. You can use your ex as a dip stick for how interested and invested guys are now. If they run for the hills, they are pussies and you deserve better. If they stick around, then they are keepers.

    Don't feel bad about yourself. You are wonderful and smart and FUNNY!


    Answer by SleepingBeautee at 11:31 AM on Feb. 23, 2011

  • *glomp*

    Answer by spitfire06 at 11:35 AM on Feb. 23, 2011

  • thanks butterfly
    i do feel no hope in this dating department
    took a huge leap of faith to try the dating thing, even though it was just writing on line
    this last month of internet dating has shown me that it is impossible odds to find a descent man... for me at least

    at least i did not have to see his face when i told him
    yikes, that would really would have felt bad

    Comment by fiatpax (original poster) at 11:35 AM on Feb. 23, 2011

  • what is a glomp?

    Comment by fiatpax (original poster) at 11:36 AM on Feb. 23, 2011

  • thanks sleeping, always say sweet things

    Comment by fiatpax (original poster) at 11:37 AM on Feb. 23, 2011