It's not what you think. This is not a question about if I should or should not. And It's not a question if it is right or wrong. Just so we are clear I am pro choice but personally would not do it. The problem is that my sil is going to have one. Some history: She has one child already and only make 300 (bring home) a month. All the family has to help her and she lives at home. Her ex-boyfriend put holes in the condom and she ended up pg. She can't handle the idea of adoption so she is going with abortion. Now, The problem is she wants me to take her. I am! just because I want to make sure she is not going to a place that is dirty and what have you. plus, she needs some support to love her unconditionally which i am glad to do for her. She knows I don't agree with it and not happy but willing to let her make her choice. Her family (my in-laws) are totally against abortion all together. I know I will have to hear it from the family and I guess I willing to take it. But am I really that wrong for stepping in when everyone else (including her mother) was calling her a baby killer and telling her 2 yr old that she was killing her baby? I don't think I am wrong for stepping in and helping her through this but wanted your opinion...should I have stayed out of it or did i do the right thing?
Asked by Anonymous at 12:05 PM on Feb. 23, 2011 in Parenting Debate
Answer by r.e.l.s.m.o.m. at 12:15 PM on Feb. 23, 2011
Answer by hootie826 at 12:09 PM on Feb. 23, 2011
Answer by Augusta at 12:11 PM on Feb. 23, 2011
Answer by Saya at 12:14 PM on Feb. 23, 2011
Answer by wildflowers25 at 12:15 PM on Feb. 23, 2011
Answer by r.e.l.s.m.o.m. at 12:17 PM on Feb. 23, 2011
Answer by Anonymous at 12:17 PM on Feb. 23, 2011
She's an adult and can make the decision for her own body... She will need someone in her corner and your not wrong to be there for her.... That family is not much of a family if they are going to say those things to her & to say that to her 2 year old is just wrong!
Answer by monshine2 at 12:17 PM on Feb. 23, 2011
Answer by Anonymous at 12:20 PM on Feb. 23, 2011
Answer by kai302 at 12:22 PM on Feb. 23, 2011
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