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Dh is having problems "down there" adult content

i am so frustrated b.c it has been a long time since i had some good sex lol the last 3 times we were gonna go at it were aweful. the 1st time he couldn't stay hard, the 2nd time he blew in his pants and the 3rd time we finally got penetration but he blew in like 2 minutes. what's up with this, he has never had this problem and he's only 32 (almost 33)


Asked by ihave10kids at 2:57 PM on Feb. 23, 2011 in Relationships

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  • possible guilt
    possible medical issue
    but i am guessing more in his big head, then his little head
    sounds too sudden for medical reasoning

    good luck

    Answer by fiatpax at 3:18 PM on Feb. 23, 2011

  • That may be a sign of a serious medical problem that young. Diabetes, blood pressure, prostate issues. Tell him to go to the doctor and try to be understanding about the sex.

    Answer by meandrphoto at 3:00 PM on Feb. 23, 2011

  • that sucks im sorry

    Answer by Tarrahs2011 at 3:00 PM on Feb. 23, 2011

  • oh man.. i just dont know.

    Answer by SunshineSmiles at 3:00 PM on Feb. 23, 2011

  • i've been nice and act like it don't matte but really it does lol i miss the good ole days of roughness

    Comment by ihave10kids (original poster) at 3:01 PM on Feb. 23, 2011

  • have him get checked for (ED) erectile dysfunction he might need to use the drugs which ever suits him GL
    Viagra, Levitra, Cialis just make sure he goes sees his Dr. Or it will get worse my dh has this problem and if it weren't for the pills he said he would have to kill himself knowing he can't please me anymore. It could have to do with stress too. Then again try giving your dh and good bj so when you ge after it again he will stay hard LONGER...oohlala!!! Have fun!

    Answer by Butterfly1108 at 3:14 PM on Feb. 23, 2011

  • I definitely things he needs to see a Dr. Could be one of many things, but he seems to young to be having ED problems, so I think it could be something more, blood pressure, Diabetes, or prostate problems. Good luck.

    Answer by Mommyto2LilMen at 3:35 PM on Feb. 23, 2011

  • Have him go see a dr.

    Answer by KWnavywife at 4:56 PM on Feb. 23, 2011

  • he mentioned going to a dr but it's an embarassing issue for him so i totally understand i just hope he works it out lol

    Comment by ihave10kids (original poster) at 5:20 PM on Feb. 23, 2011

  • Hard one....have you talked to him about this? maybe he is seeing someone else and getting sex often from her so he is unable to preform with you, it happens and sometimes if a man drinks to much too he can get it hard or keep it hard...I hope it works for you. Keep an eye on things and make notes.

    Answer by dusty1962 at 11:42 PM on Feb. 23, 2011

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