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Would you tell your friend or relative you didn't like their SO?


Asked by tasches at 7:06 PM on Feb. 23, 2011 in Relationships

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  • Yes... My friends and I are brutally honest with each other. If you can't rely on your friends to tell you the truth, who can you rely on?

    Answer by Anouck at 7:10 PM on Feb. 23, 2011

  • Yes. I am honest with them on what I think of their SO. If I don't like them I will tell them but I won't try and make them leave the person.

    Answer by mommy_of_two388 at 7:07 PM on Feb. 23, 2011

  • ~*Yes*~... I believe in being up front and honest with people... and hope they are with me!!! I don't believe in being "fake", and drop those that are

    Answer by MommaClark3 at 7:07 PM on Feb. 23, 2011

  • i actually have told my friend that i dislike her husband. i told her to leave him. it's not without reason though. she complains that he is a drug addicted, cheating,in & out of jail, physically abusive husband, so i tell her what any one with common sense would say to her. she's still with him. I guess she's still expecting him to change. He goes through phases between good husband and terrible husband. The good phases are always short lived. It's not my choice, but if she asks my advice, I'm gonna give it to her without sugarcoating.

    Answer by rAbella at 7:11 PM on Feb. 23, 2011

  • I tell my sister often, but other than that I keep my opinions to myself

    Answer by LuvMyMedic3ID at 7:14 PM on Feb. 23, 2011

  • Yep, it wouldn't be the first time!

    Answer by flmomma4 at 7:15 PM on Feb. 23, 2011

  • Yes,my BFF knows I think her husband is a self righteous pompous ass

    Answer by butterflyblue19 at 7:34 PM on Feb. 23, 2011

  • I have spoken my piece to my friends about their so's and they know where I stand.

    Answer by coala at 7:50 PM on Feb. 23, 2011

  • well I think the general theme here "yup, I make my feeling known!" lol But yes I also agree, maybe use a little tact here and there. But as everyone knows, when u fall in love/lust, u have blinders on and can't see past the sex. I disliked, well a little more then that, but I felt there was something off about him, my bff boyfriend. Then when I saw him get angry with a waitress at this resturant, I knew it then. Did a back ground check and found he was convicted of domestic assault with intent to do great bodily harm. So I am a great beliver in trusting your gut!

    Answer by Michigan-Mom74 at 8:11 PM on Feb. 23, 2011

  • Yes. I have before and have had a friend tell me she didn't like my husband. Unfortunately, is depends on the reasons why. Sometimes, jealousy blinds a person just as much as love/lust. I make my reasoning is true and I have evidence to back it up. I couldn't stand my BFF's boyfriend(at the time, now her husband). I think he's a great guy now. Some jealousy issues but they've gotten so much better over the years. But he loves her, honestly and truly, and I can see that when they're together.

    Just because you don't like them, doesn't you never will. People can change.

    Answer by IrishPennMom at 9:01 PM on Feb. 23, 2011