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WHAT DOES ONE PERSON DO THAT IS BEING ABUSED?

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MARCOM2002

Asked by MARCOM2002 at 5:08 PM on Nov. 19, 2008 in Relationships

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  • Elaborate please? Abused how? By whom? Where?
    tat2edmommyof2

    Answer by tat2edmommyof2 at 5:09 PM on Nov. 19, 2008

  • If you are being abused, you need to get out of the situation. Make a plan, get together Birth Certificates, money, clothes, car keys, etc and leave. File for an order of protection with the courts so your abuser cannot come near you. (He probably will though, but then you call the cops and they arrest him.) If you have no where to go, then you go to a battered woman's shelter. If you need someone to talk to don't hesistate to PM me. I've been thru this.
    TheDiva320

    Answer by TheDiva320 at 5:10 PM on Nov. 19, 2008

  • if your saying what do you do if you feel you are being abused then you need to get your kids get out and call a safe house. stay there till you get a restraining order and then file for the divorce if your married or if you have kids with this person get a temp custody order before the other does
    unsureforsure

    Answer by unsureforsure at 5:10 PM on Nov. 19, 2008

  • MAKE EM BREAKFAST!!!! Make some really hot grits....throw them on him...then...take that nice big heavy iron skilet you cooked the bacon with and beat the fuck out of him..now I wouldn't really do this but it's a fun idea!!!!! Prove his abusing you take his butt to court and get protection for you n the kids if any......
    rebel07

    Answer by rebel07 at 5:24 PM on Nov. 19, 2008

  • Call the local domestic violence shelter or the national hotline at 1 -800-799-7233 or www.ndvh.org
    admckenzie

    Answer by admckenzie at 6:19 PM on Nov. 19, 2008

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