Just so everyone knows I am not getting upset about this am just wondering if I should keep trying or just let it go. I don't have any friends or acquaintances and my family has pretty much disowned me also so when she started talking and getting in contact with me I thought it was great.
I found a elementary school friend on Facebook and friended her she accepted and we started talking and would talk every day on Facebook or send each other some type of message it went on for about month and a half to two months; I sent her a Christmas card and got no response; have sent her messages about once a week and nothing; sent her a Valentine's Card and no response--I wasn't expecting anything in return; I don't send things to people expecting things in return; just thought it was odd.
Then a couple weeks ago got this message from her--"Sorry, I haven't gotten with you. Most of the time, I'm just exhausted. I haven't had a 2 day weekend in a month. and for my one day off I've either driven to Illinois or up north for one day with my kids and boyfriend. We are trying to buy a house in Greenville. My very own house. I'm afraid to even talk about it because I've lost so much before. Your mom would be so proud of you. I am so proud of you. Love ya"
We were best friends and inseparable from kindergarten through fifth grade when she moved and we lost contact with each other.
My question is would you continue to stay in contact with her and send her messages or would you just leave it alone.
It hurts tremendously because we were so close and when she started contacting me back she acted like there was never any time between us that we weren't in contact with each other. I don't treat people this way and it hurts to be treated like this.
Just wondering what you would do. Please no bashing or negative remarks
Answer by grismelda at 11:37 AM on Feb. 24, 2011
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