My cousin got married almost 6 years ago and since then, he and his wife have had 4 children and she is pregnant again. The thing is THEY ARE ALL GIRLS, including the one she is pregnant with. They want a boy so bad it is sick. They got married after she got pregnant and didn't talk about the pregnancy until after they got married, by that time, they knew it was a girl so we didn't really hear them say that they wanted a boy. With the second girl, the whole pregnancy, they were talking about how it was gonna be a boy and SURPRISE, it was a girl. With the third, they were even telling the oldest that she was getting a brother and would snap at anyone who dared say "what if it's a girl" and the fourth one she hardly even talked about her pregnancy after finding out that it was yet another girl. We just found out that the one she is pregnant with is a girl and I can only imagine how that is gonna go. Why even have children if you are gonna be upset about what the gender is? They have 4 healthy, happy little girls and one on the way, I would feel so blessed to have as much. The other thing is they can't really afford 5 children but they keep having them because they want a boy. She smokes through her pregnancy and doesn't take care of the children she already has, who are always being cared for by other people. I think one of the things that pisses me off the most is her girls never have anything nice to wear unless they are with my aunt (their grandma) but she always has nice things on and they have money for cigarettes and tattoos. These girls get hand me downs from other people and she doesn't take care of their clothes so by the time they have made it to the second or third girl, they are little more then rags. They are always dirty and it breaks my heart because they are all such sweet girls (the youngest is 5 months old). Me and my fiance' are getting married next month and are gonna start trying for one ( I have a 4 year old) and we told my cousin and his wife and they said "what do you want?" and I said "properly functioning organs, because so many parents don't even get that". I was hoping that saying that would put things in perspective for her but I guess not.Answer Question
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