when i told mom i was pregnant with oldest she was excited. when i got pregnant with youngest it was a rant of how could you do that , hubby was injured on the job and was working back in the office instead of his regular job and also on partial workmen's comp. and how could you to do that to your other daughter. WTH i wanted kids always have she always knew that. well, my oldest has medical issues and it seems my youngest does to. oldest was just tested for autism and youngest is getting ready to be checked for adhd and autism. oldest is adhd inattentive. if my oldest does anything she gets in trouble. but my mom will not raise her voice at her ( which is good cause it sets her off bad) but she will rant and rave at my youngest. You say you don't have a preference but i see it. I am hoping if we find out what is wrong with my youngest she will see it is not her acting out but a medical problem and will react the same with her.. She does tell them both she loves them, she tries to do the same for both when comes to gifts etc. but she was closer to my oldest even before my oldest was born. that baby would not kick unless my mom was talking to her in my belly, i always wondered if the doctors made a mistake because i did not feel pregnant at all lol. she was a easy pregnancy until labor started. heck when they put her in my arms i was shocked to. i think because i had wanted it for years and had not been able to. anyway, does anyone else have a mom who does this?
Answer by Anonymous at 4:15 PM on Feb. 24, 2011
Answer by L0vingMy3Girls at 4:16 PM on Feb. 24, 2011
Answer by gemgem at 4:19 PM on Feb. 24, 2011
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Answer by pswiley at 4:21 PM on Feb. 24, 2011
Answer by gemgem at 4:21 PM on Feb. 24, 2011
My MIL prefers her two granddaughters over her 5 grandsons. It is very obvious. She also favors her daughters over her sons.
Answer by Anonymous at 4:29 PM on Feb. 24, 2011