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I gave my SO an out on XMAS and Valentines day because we dont need to spend unnecessary money while we are trying to buy a new house and I did not allow him to get me a b-day gift that cost 350.00 so I kinda didn't get anything. Today is our anniversary and he hasn't said ONE single word to me ALL day! Im afraid that I gave him too many out and now he thinks he doesn't have to appreciate me at all. I don't want a gift or anything like that but I could use a hello a hug maybe a sweet card. Im so upset with him that I cannot even think of anything nice to put in the card I got him. How do I tell him how I feel without sounding ungrateful. Also I am pregnant and pretty emotional lately.Answer Question
Answer by MommaClark3 at 4:19 PM on Feb. 24, 2011
Answer by L0vingMy3Girls at 4:20 PM on Feb. 24, 2011
Since he wanted to get you gifts any you refused them, maybe he feels like his efforts were under appreciated and doesn't want to go through that again. I would tell him how you feel about him in general, and not about not him not acknowledging your anniversary when you write out the card. Maybe after you give it to him it will jog his memory (c:
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