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How Often Do You...?

and you S/O have sex? I'm sure this has been asked hundreds and hundreds of times before, but I'm interested in the answers for couples who have been living together for 4 years and up?

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Asked by erinwhitt at 6:00 PM on Feb. 24, 2011 in Relationships

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  • I have two answers for this question. We have sex "for him" atleast 4 times a week. We have sex "for me" about once a week. We are happy with the arrangement, it works for us. His drive is waaaay stronger than mine but I don't mid letting him have a quickie here and there. I am about a once a week kind of girl. I don't tell him no and he never turns me down either.

    We've been married 8 years, by the way.

    Answer by Anonymous at 6:11 PM on Feb. 24, 2011

  • My husband and I have been together for 10 years, married for 8, with 4 kids and we still manage to have sex at least 5 times a week when he's home. We are not above having a quickie in the car either - like the other night when we had friends over they stayed at the house with the kids while my husband and I ran out to the store to pick up something for breakfast since our friends and their kids were spending the night. Maybe its just our ages (I'm 24, he's 27) or maybe it's because he sometimes goes on business trips for up to several weeks at a time but I can't imagine having less sex.

    Answer by Anonymous at 6:20 PM on Feb. 24, 2011

  • we have sex almost everynight

    Answer by EttaMay at 6:29 PM on Feb. 24, 2011

  • 4-7 times a week (on average)
    together almost 10 years

    Answer by notjstasocermom at 6:32 PM on Feb. 24, 2011

  • We've been married almost 7 years and we still try to have sex everyday, of course with 3 kids that isn't always possible. At least 4 times a week.

    Answer by HKing01 at 6:40 PM on Feb. 24, 2011

  • off and on for 3 yrs.. about once a week, sometimes more

    Answer by sunshinebaby209 at 6:41 PM on Feb. 24, 2011

  • About 3 times a month. My husband works a lot and our son comes first.

    Answer by at 6:56 PM on Feb. 24, 2011

  • At least once a day. We love sex and love each other!

    Answer by Mousuke at 7:01 PM on Feb. 24, 2011

  • been together 6 1/2 years, and we have sex on average 4-5 times a week, sometimes multiple times in a day, sometimes we'll go several nights in a row where it's every night..sometimes we'll go a few nights without...just depends!

    Answer by -mrs.mamma- at 7:40 PM on Feb. 24, 2011

  • 4-5 times a week. just depends on day week been together 6 years.

    Answer by red_head_mommy2 at 9:34 PM on Feb. 24, 2011

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