When I was young I was always very close to my mother but when I turned 18 and started dating for the first time, I relationship took a hard hit. She began trying to find reasons me and my then bf should split up even filing police complaints against him and even me. I started working and landed a good job, and she decided to 'suddenly' give me a curfew that was before the time I got off work. So enough was enough I ended up moving out at 19, and getting my own place. We had fallouts here and there but I always just let things go because she was my mother and told me 'she doesn't apologize to children.' A year or so later I had my son and my mom was never really around. He's about to be 4 now and she has never been to one of his b-day parties or even my baby shower. After 3 years, I found a guy I decided to settle down with. And now suddenly my mothers like my best friend. She never calls or comes by much (we live together) but she wants me to call her everyday like clockwork and for us to come by every weekend. I try to tell her nicely that the weekends are the only time we have to spend together, and when I do she gets offended and starts posting ignorant things on my facebook wall like, 'I guess we're not family anymore you dont call or come by, or I guess you're still living even though I don't hear from you anymore (after not talking to me for one day!). She doesnt work and stays two minutes away from us and could come over during the week any time she feels, but she always refuses. My sons bday is next month and she tried to tell me she was having his birthday at her house (?)and says things like 'you love him but you'll never love him as much as me and when he was born he saw me first.' I dont know why but it seems like she is jealous or something. But something about her attitude lately is sketchy especially since I've gotten pregnant again.Answer Question
I'm not bashing your mom babes but seriously, she has some issues. It sounds like she has control issues and is extremely jealous.
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