im 22 years old and am a mom of 2 lil boys, one is 3 and the other is 1. I've raised them by my self since day one. ive had a lil help here and there but anyways right now im at tha point in my life where im basically tearin myself in half...
i really want to settle down an start my family but its really hard wit 2 kids wotkin, an everything else on my plate. but i feel like its bout that time n i think i found someone i could really actually spend my life with..... ok anyways let me ask my question
i was wondering if it is wrong for me to want to kinda trade places with my babies dads? in other words like make it to where they have them 24/7 an i will have them on the weekends or every other week or something? half of me thinks i am bein a bad mom an the other half knows i still need to take care of me you know? anyways if anyone has any advice good or bad i would really really appreciate it
Answer by MiMiBreezy at 9:43 PM on Nov. 19, 2008
Answer by MiMiBreezy at 9:44 PM on Nov. 19, 2008
Answer by JDanesMommy at 9:56 PM on Nov. 19, 2008
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Answer by daughteroftruth at 10:42 PM on Nov. 19, 2008
I think you would regret that decision. You are all your little boys have, it sounds like the fathers and I could be wrong are bad fathers. What father would let you raise them by yourself? There's you answer, if these men/man aren't responsible to help out, what makes you think they can handle them 24/7. And how do you know this new man is worth it? What if this relationship doesn't work out? You would have given up your children for what? No man is worth it. Nothing should come before you children, I know its gets hard but you'll get through it. Perhaps you could have the father's take the kids a couple nights a week to help you out, but don't turn you back on your babies.
Answer by Anonymous at 10:56 PM on Nov. 19, 2008
Answer by Gu3ra_817 at 12:58 AM on Nov. 20, 2008