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KEEPING THE MAGIC GOING? adult content

What do you and your other do to keep up your sex life? or change it up. I have been so tired since we had our 3rd child and now we find ourselfs with me waking him up at midnight when I come to bed to do anything.... and the only thing we have seem to mastered is the quicky

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SkylaReneeMom

Asked by SkylaReneeMom at 2:06 PM on Feb. 25, 2011 in Relationships

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  • Plan a date night so you guys can have some "grown up time"
    ExtremlyUnique

    Answer by ExtremlyUnique at 2:15 PM on Feb. 25, 2011

  • my problem with that is we have noone to watch our kids that we can trust!
    SkylaReneeMom

    Comment by SkylaReneeMom (original poster) at 2:18 PM on Feb. 25, 2011

  • We can't wait to spend time with each other every night when the kids (we have 3 also) go to bed at 7:30. Even if all we have the energy to do is cuddle, it usually leads to more.
    HKing01

    Answer by HKing01 at 2:42 PM on Feb. 25, 2011

  • Saturday -- or whatever day that you and he both are home together ALL day..... do this.... one gets up earlier than usual and gets the kids up with them. The other gets up at regular getting up time. Do your normal thing.... but then the one who got up first get's to take a nap, mid-afternoon.... the other get's a nap late-afternoon..... (if the kids usually get a nap - cut it 30 minutes short and get em up) Then do your evening stuff one hour earlier than you normally would. (dinner is usually at 6, tonight it's at 5)... put the kids to be one hour earlier than you normally would. (Now mom and dad have an hour to enjoy each other's company). {{ It's not a plan for every day of the week - but if you really want some time for coupling, it's worth the sacrifice every now and then}} Used to do this once a month so that I could try to have catch-up time with the EX... it works if you work it.
    ShelbyShareAlot

    Answer by ShelbyShareAlot at 6:50 PM on Feb. 25, 2011

  • do u have anyone that can watch the kids for a night so you and your dh can have some alone time
    Jssg1986

    Answer by Jssg1986 at 2:33 PM on Feb. 26, 2011

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