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TMI Don't you think CPS needs to take these kids from their mom?

I got a call last night from a friend of mine who is roomates with our other friend. But what she told me put me into tears I had a hard time sleeping!

!. This lady is 19 yrs old and is 7 months pregnant! She has a 22 month old baby too.

1. She lets her run around in a diaper all day with no clothes on
2. Dosn't wash the babies clothes except every 3 to 5 weeks so she smells so bad :(
3. only bathes her once a week
4. Beat her and hit her because she was on Facebook and her daughter wanted to sit on her lap.

5. Puts her to bed with no clothes on, no heater, and no blanket. While snowing outside

6. leaves all the windows open with no heater and child is always sick.

7. Let her play in the toilet even when urin is in it! The mother dosn't always flushs, and then dosn't clean her up and puts her to nap that way.

8. Never cleans her hands off / face and goes places

9. Takes her baby out in the stoller with no shoes on, just socks, and sweats with a sweat shirt while raining and in the 50 range. It was cold that day.

10. Slapped her across the face for not listening. And tells her " Get out of the f$%&ing room your so stupid just like you father you little BIt%$ Horibble words, yells at her, and lets her baby sit on a 8 month old and dosn't stop it.

Only gives her kool laid.

Last night my friend told me all the baby ate for the whole day was a pop tart then went to bed after drinking out of the toilet. The mother said it'sokay it's just tap water, and it's okay not to have the heater on. There was a show that said babies don't get cold!

How sad is this? The mother smokes in the house, trys to. She also leaves the baby with her roomate and dosn't come back 2 to 4 hours 4 days out of the week. This mother is on welfar and dosn't pay a dime for anything let alone take care of her child! She needs to go and care for her, feed her properly and love her!

CPS came once and said the baby was fine! How could they say that? I guess they need all the evidence they can get!

Last night the pregnant mother of the 22 month old as well. Was soo drunk she passed out after 3 glasses of vodka! I hope CPS takes the child, and baby right after it's born. It makes me sick. I am so angry at this person for being a shitty parent! These are the stories you hear about kids being dead of the news! :(

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Asked by Anonymous at 3:09 PM on Feb. 25, 2011 in Relationships

Answers (25)
  • yea, the child needs to be removed. this is just disgusting and heart-breaking. what your friend needs to do is document this stuff so there is proof of what a shitty, lowlife piece of shit mother she is. if i lived with that child i would be bathing her, feeding her, and dressing her appropriately anyway.

    Answer by tnm786 at 3:13 PM on Feb. 25, 2011

  • If all this is true, I'm with you, that kid needs to be taken out and fast!
    If anyone can get proof, I hope they do!

    keep calling about it, from what I hear they usually don't do much until there are repeated called by different people.

    Answer by ItsMe89 at 3:13 PM on Feb. 25, 2011

  • It breaks my heart to hear about abused and neglected children. I wish people had to have parenting education before they could have children so little ones wouldn't have to suffer. I'd keep calling cps but then again I hear the foster care is pretty bad too where kids get abused as well so I don't know the answer.

    Answer by Anonymous at 3:13 PM on Feb. 25, 2011

  • i would just keep calling cps on her ass until they see something wrong here. seriously i think cps standards are way to high for whats considered child abuse. sadly there are parents who would love to love a child and new born and yet unfit mothers don't love them enough to adopt them. have you tired to convince this woman to adopt her baby and child. obviously she doesn't love them.

    Answer by melody77 at 3:15 PM on Feb. 25, 2011

  • Keep calling and have yourfriend call. Call every day. My friends lost their baby for an unexplainable bruise. Good luck.

    Answer by krissyvelazquez at 3:36 PM on Feb. 25, 2011

  • Um this seems made up. If true. So sad and babies need to be removed.

    Answer by Anonymous at 3:39 PM on Feb. 25, 2011

  • Well instead of making a phone call to YOU then she should make a call to the police.  She can then file a report with the police who will contact CPS. 


    Answer by MrsHouston47302 at 3:42 PM on Feb. 25, 2011

  • The water in the back of the toilet is the same that comes out of your faucet.  All of mine have dipped their hands in the toilet. I don't consider that to be abuse.


    Answer by MrsHouston47302 at 3:43 PM on Feb. 25, 2011

  • Running around in a diaper all day long isn't being abused. 


    Answer by MrsHouston47302 at 3:44 PM on Feb. 25, 2011

  • CPS (in my state) would have immediately taken the child had it been cold inside.  How is the child being beaten but the mom isn't leaving physical marks?  CPS will also take action if bruises and red marks don't look like normal everyday wear and tear that children do to themselves.


    Answer by MrsHouston47302 at 3:46 PM on Feb. 25, 2011

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