Every time I try the sexting thing with DH he either changes the subject, tells me that he didn't get the text or treats it like it's a joke. And this goes for phone sex and even sex games (rather board games or card games, role play, dressing up, etc.) I'm doing everything I can to spice things up - but he's not cooperating at all. I'm getting frustrated. We ain't 'bored' or boring, per se. I just like to keep it saucy. I'm trying to bring this man out of his shell, put a little extra heat on the fire, if you will. But I can't do that if he's never willing to play along. I mean let's face it; the heating pad feels nice on low and medium, it gets the job done, but sometimes you just want (or need) to flip the switch all the way up to scalding hot, ya know.
What the heck?
Asked by Anonymous at 7:10 PM on Feb. 25, 2011 in Relationships
Answer by Anonymous at 7:14 PM on Feb. 25, 2011
There is a pretty high percentage of men who enjoy doing the pursuing rather than being the pursued. Don't know if your hubby falls into that group or not, but if he does, you are making him feel pretty bad about himself when you keep doing all these little "extras." If you really want to do things that will help your cause, try telling him how much you appreciate the man he is, thank him for little things like taking out the trash, bringing home a paycheck. Those are the kinds of things that will light the fire of the most reticent of men.
Answer by NannyB. at 7:17 PM on Feb. 25, 2011
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