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Would you ever have a baby to get a closer bond with your family or your SO's

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Asked by Anonymous at 12:06 AM on Feb. 26, 2011 in General Parenting

Answers (8)
  • No

    Answer by Simplicity3 at 12:07 AM on Feb. 26, 2011

  • HELL NO!!!!!!!!! We have six kids, there are lots of good reasons to have one, but that reason for having a baby is the worst I've ever heard.

    Answer by judimary at 12:08 AM on Feb. 26, 2011

  • No, a baby is a huge responsibility and not something to do to make someone else happy or to get closer to someone else. Usually that sort of thing backfires. Only have a baby when you and your SO/DH are ready to and you BOTH want to have one. Outside family shouldn't factor into the decision!!!!

    Answer by kmath at 12:08 AM on Feb. 26, 2011

  • No, that wouldn't be fair to the baby AT ALL.

    Answer by SweetLoveofMine at 12:08 AM on Feb. 26, 2011

  • No. I don't think that would strengthen the bond.

    Answer by ashisamom at 12:11 AM on Feb. 26, 2011

  • no

    Answer by san78 at 5:43 AM on Feb. 26, 2011

  • No, it is not fair to anyone...........especially the baby

    Answer by elizabr at 8:24 AM on Feb. 26, 2011

  • Definitely not. A Child may do exactly the opposite.

    Children should be wanted, by BOTH parents. They are a huge responsibility, and having a child is a serious decision

    Answer by rkoloms at 10:18 AM on Feb. 26, 2011

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