Ok a couple of weeks ago I posted about my s/o who is on blood pressaure meds and is overweight and not really having sex like we use to. I was chatting about how he wasn't getting it up like he use to. I was having problems thinking it was all me not turning him on anymore and he knew this and it was becoming a real problem.
Well several comments were made about him taking Cialis.
On our trip last weekend in Florida he finally confessed he had be cutting his Cialis in quarters and taking them, but hasn't no more because he is out of them and has no insurance now so he isn't getting anymore Cialis pills. I was like you are kidding??? He says no, and I told him, "here I was thinking it was me the whole time and you knew, why didn't you tell me??" He really didnt have an answer.
Was/is he embarrassed by all this? Embarrassed enough to let me think it was me?? Why not just tell me up front???
Answer by Butterfly1108 at 4:05 PM on Feb. 27, 2011
I think he was embarrassed. Imagine your hubby, who has always been turned on by you, has not been able to please you like he used to. I imagine he didn't want to hurt your feelings, but also didn't want you to know that he couldn't take care of these things. It is driven into many men's heads that they are the ones to provide for themselves and their families. I think he was hurt/embarrassed by the fact that he couldn't provide for this need.
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